Develop an anti-dowry attitude

A few days ago I asked a boy - "Well, do you support taking dowry as a gift from the in-laws during the wedding ?"

Then he said- "If I marry a girl of twenty years, if I calculate at least one lakh rupees a year, then the hard earned money of the parents has cost the girl two million rupees. If I could afford it, I would pay the money to the girl's father first, then I would marry his daughter. "

Is there no bed for sleeping in my house ??"

- I liked the things.

In fact, I think, a parent, taking care of a girl with utmost care, educating and qualifying her, on average raises all the demands and marries the girl to a boy. That father-in-law again went into debt for the rest of his life as a daughter-in-law father while arranging his daughter's wedding .

Not as a girl, but as a benefactor, we broke this rule at first.

On the wedding day, Bhabhi's uncle was handing over a set of jewelry to her mother. Mom then said, we did not want any dowry brother! Then Mama said, it is a gift for the daughter. Ammu then said, then give it to the daughter.

Well, the boys who take furniture as a gift from the bride during the wedding, they do not sleep in bed ?? Doesn't their house have any furniture ? If not, then there is no point in bringing the furniture of the next house and showing it. 

And the parents of the girl who thinks that giving these things will increase the price of the girl in the in-laws' house, do they know, basically these things are bringing the girl's qualities and qualifications to the bargain of transaction and making her equal to the product ??

And in this way, in exchange for the girl's price and dowry-like gift, the boy's side is actually selling the boy by auctioning off their self-esteem, why don't they understand that ??

 Stop giving her dowry in a fancy way by comparing her to a product during marriage.

There is in Islam - "The less the marriage, the more blessed the marriage."

Develop an anti-dowry attitude.